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Monday, February 7th 2011

12:07 PM

What a week!

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Hello again!!

It has been awhile since I was able to get in here and post again. Wow time goes by..

Anyway, I know I was going to post about some memories but that is coming later. I wanted to just talk about what's been going on this week. The good, the bad and the really ugly..

 It has been a ride! We moved!  The house we are in is so beautiful! We are finally owners! It took a long time but we are finally here.

It was a really difficult move to do. We had so much with 6 people! We did a lot of ridding and got a lot of stuff thrown out or given away which was a great thing. But we still had SO MUCH left!! We rented a 26 foot truck and it took 3 times of loading it full to move everything out. I wish we could've had a bigger truck but no one here has a CDL! We did have movers come one day but they were AWFUL! They must've damaged one hundred things it was so bad. And their attitude was horrifying! They were rude and acted like jerks. I made them leave after 1 hour. I was so mad I stomped my foot and yelled GET OUT! at them. So we got several members of Mike's family to help. And THANK GOD for them because we never could've done it without them! It took us 3 days to move everything in the house and some into the storage shed. The biggest job was moving all the fish tanks and the cats! WOW! We lost the salt water fish but saved the rest. It was really hard. Tommy and Susan busted their asses (literally!) getting all the fish out and hauling them into the house. Mike and I helped with moving the tanks in but they did the biggest part. Tommy has a bad foot and it was killing him afterwards.

 Now we are in the house but it is really slow going getting everything out of boxes, hooked up, cleaned up, straightened up, and things are just not going the way I was hoping. I never moved with so much stuff. It is getting ridiculous with everyone else not wanting to part with anything. There is so much that is completely worn out and needs to be thrown away. I think I have finally convinced them to put it in the storage shed (so it can at least be out of the house!) and we can have a yard sale or something. I hope I have.It also doesn't help having and 11 year old who is attached to every silly toy that is broken and/or too young for her now. She doesn't want to clean up after herself but we make her do it. She is an 11 year old teenager..UGH. I busted MY ass getting the kitchen and bathroom in order and Mike and I are working on the bedroom. Tina, Mike and Tommy's cousin, came over today and is helping get things in order. She is a tough one so hopefully she can talk sense into everyone! The plumber called and can't come on Wednesday to move the water heater, put in the disposal and make a new dryer vent because he has the flu. He is supposed to come on Saturday now. Looks like I am taking everything to the laundromat again this week. FUN. I know things are going to get better..I am just on here venting as well as informing so I can get it all out. I will be happy when it's done. Ohh my GOD will I be glad!! OK back to it.

Love u all,

S.

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Monday, October 11th 2010

12:30 PM

Memory Lane..

Hey everyone,

I am in Illinois as I am writing this and it has been a memorable trip. All good.

 I have been thinking so much about my life here and when I lived at home with my parents. It is amazing what I remember so vividly and how it also seems like 100 years ago at the same time. I lived it this house for so many years...I remember the holiday gatherings and the everyday things. Getting ready for school, going out with my friends, riding my bike from morning til night. Skinned knees, arguments with best friends that seemed to be the end of the world, Babysitters, pizza night, Long phone cords so you could stretch them down the hall into your room and your parents couldn't hear your conversation..lol! Birthdays, presents, wishing you were older..yep older. Scary movies that you had bad dreams about or couldn't go to sleep after cos you were so scared. Slumber parties and ghost stories, truth or dare games, (saying Bloody Mary 3 times standing in front of the bathroom mirror in the dark with the door closed...haha!) Neighbors who you loved and ones who were mean, swimming in flood water on the street, climbing trees that you knew were too high and your parents getting upset when you couldn't get down, the excuses you really thought were intelligent like: She/He started it!, Everyone's doing it!, I don't know how it got broken! It just came down!, My friends told me to do it or they would beat me up!, Running to tell your mom/dad that your brother or sister hit you before they could, I swear I didn't do it on purpose, it was an accident!, It was like that when I got here!..etc.. I am going to write about some experiences on here when I post again..I remember some really great ones... Right now I am just lost in thought...

 

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Thursday, July 15th 2010

12:00 PM

Landlord crap and more drama

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Been dealing with a bad landlord..Actually a bad landlord, his ex-wife, who is his property manager...??? and his wife. We all needed a bigger place to live since there are six of us now. So Susan (Mike's sister-in-law) and I started looking and we found this house in Inwood WV. It seemed to have everything we needed. Plenty of room for all of us and lots of extras. And that part is true. We specifically asked if it had central ac or window units.Nancy (ex-wife) said yes it did. The previous renters didn't use it so they would have it checked out and serviced in the early spring. Great right? OK..March comes and I reminded Nancy about getting the ac looked at. I am a daughter of an owner of a heating and ac business so I know to call really early...She said ok she would call. April comes..reminded her again. Said OK...still nothing..By May Im getting worried cos I know its gonna get hot and they get very busy. FINALLY she calls and they come out to look. The entire thing is old. VERY OLD. 35 years old...GOOD GOD! Needs replaced badly. They refuse. I suggest asking them if we could use rent for buying window units. Nancy thinks this is good. Landlord throws a FIT and says HELL NO. I looked at lease and it says we are guaranteed ac and I remind them of that. We get into big argument and by this time it is HOT HOT HOT. I go and spend 40 bucks on a used window unit off of craigslist cos we cant stand it at all. 90 and above outside. Tommy and Susan get one and give it to Mike and Tommy's mom. She has multiple health issues and needs the ac. We go on fighting with them about it and my mom finds a lawyer who specializes in unfit living conditions and bad landlords. We were about ready to get him involved this week and Nancy calls out of the blue and says we are getting a new central unit. FINALLY. I still have questions tho. What changed their minds after arguing about it for so long..??? First they say it is too expensive and then they say the dog bothered the ac guy...???? WTH!!! Excuses..
On top of that, my job is getting stressful. I started in Floral and I love it. Then things of course get slow so I asked to be in the front end to pick up extra hours when I can't be in floral. Now I have NO hours in Floral and being in the front end is driving me NUTS. I work such odd hours and very late at night sometimes and I hate that. My whole body is out of whack cos I don't have a regular routine. I haven't been the nicest person but I needed to be a bit "Dont MESS WITH ME!!" with the landlord I suppose. Just needed to get this off my chest somewhere. I hope I can find a better job soon. It really sucks out there right now.
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